What is charity

according to oxford dictionary

the voluntary giving of help, typically in the form of money, to those in need

but who are we to judge others! on their need

Charity is doing things which make others happier

which in turn makes us happy

Thus 

charity is doing or giving things to others which make both others and us happy


Hence do not feel the need for judging others while doing charity. if it makes both parties happy, then do it


hope this makes sense

warm regards


chockalingam

life an one way street, do good now to people you love or hate

Life is like a one-way street. It will never lead you back. So enjoy life every moment as none of them will happen the same way again. this is a quote from unknown person i might add, "do good to people when you can and do it now, you may not get the chance again" best wishes Chockalingam

Banana is not bad, misconception on diet.

One of the misconceptions on the diet issue is the good and bad of eating a banana

banana and health

just reduce the calories to compensate

for example eating rice  can raise your blood glucose more than the similar quantity of  banana

read the glycemic index

low carb diets

diabetic patients, please note the above discussion on eating the banana and kindly discuss with your diabetologist for yourself!

warm regards

chockalingam

family and work, a quote

a quote from Ra of infinitethoughts

" your work place can certainly find a replacement for you, but your family cannot"

hence spend enough time with your family

Warm Regards

Chockalingam

owning a car! then consider doing wheel balancing and alignment

do wheel alignment and balancing the wheels regularly especially if you have driven your old tyres for long

if uneven roads and roads with potholes are part of your day to day drive, then do them more often

please refer to this site

wheel alignment and balancing

Best Wishes

Chockalingam