according to oxford dictionary
the voluntary giving of help, typically in the form of money, to those in need
but who are we to judge others! on their need
Charity is doing things which make others happier
which in turn makes us happy
Thus
charity is doing or giving things to others which make both others and us happy
Hence do not feel the need for judging others while doing charity. if it makes both parties happy, then do it
hope this makes sense
warm regards
chockalingam
the voluntary giving of help, typically in the form of money, to those in need
but who are we to judge others! on their need
Charity is doing things which make others happier
which in turn makes us happy
Thus
charity is doing or giving things to others which make both others and us happy
Hence do not feel the need for judging others while doing charity. if it makes both parties happy, then do it
hope this makes sense
warm regards
chockalingam