money and good attitude, the common inverse relationship

I was speaking to a doctor who treats lots of patients with depression.

She says that often people who have money do not have the good attitude towards fellow human beings including friends and families

and

those who have good attitude often do not have money!

both makes one depressed

This does not have to be the dictum and 

let us change it,

hopefully when people with money show good attitude

and which in turn

would get people with good attitude to have more money

hope it makes sense

warm regards

Chockalingam