What is charity

according to oxford dictionary

the voluntary giving of help, typically in the form of money, to those in need

but who are we to judge others! on their need

Charity is doing things which make others happier

which in turn makes us happy

Thus 

charity is doing or giving things to others which make both others and us happy


Hence do not feel the need for judging others while doing charity. if it makes both parties happy, then do it


hope this makes sense

warm regards


chockalingam

life an one way street, do good now to people you love or hate

Life is like a one-way street. It will never lead you back. So enjoy life every moment as none of them will happen the same way again. this is a quote from unknown person i might add, "do good to people when you can and do it now, you may not get the chance again" best wishes Chockalingam

Banana is not bad, misconception on diet.

One of the misconceptions on the diet issue is the good and bad of eating a banana

banana and health

just reduce the calories to compensate

for example eating rice  can raise your blood glucose more than the similar quantity of  banana

read the glycemic index

low carb diets

diabetic patients, please note the above discussion on eating the banana and kindly discuss with your diabetologist for yourself!

warm regards

chockalingam

family and work, a quote

a quote from Ra of infinitethoughts

" your work place can certainly find a replacement for you, but your family cannot"

hence spend enough time with your family

Warm Regards

Chockalingam

owning a car! then consider doing wheel balancing and alignment

do wheel alignment and balancing the wheels regularly especially if you have driven your old tyres for long

if uneven roads and roads with potholes are part of your day to day drive, then do them more often

please refer to this site

wheel alignment and balancing

Best Wishes

Chockalingam

modern traffic rule 1, obvious when you think but we don't think when one drives

when you drive a car

the time taken to your destination is not inversely related to your maximum speed

1. When there are more number of traffic signals en route to your destination

2. when the traffic is heavy



hence relax and do not rush and press on the pedal to reach your destination quickly

keep your speed steady or low

hope this helps

warm regards


Chockalingam

Negativity brings Negativity, how to choose what you input such as reading a newspaper or watching a good movie

open your favorite newspaper

         count the number of articles with negativity such as accidents or murder

        count the number of pages in that newspaper

       divide the no of negative articles per total number of pages

       this gives a value, you would be amazed on your finding of the favorite  newspaper



      now you understand why you want to go to sports page first, most of us do

     because even if one side loses, they most of the time highlight the side or the person who wins

    you feel happy

be positive and input positive things in life

   now you understand why Arnold or Rajini is liked to be watched by most as you want to end up positive or bring the good side to your life

hope this makes sense

Warm regards

Chockalingam